Jayy Von Monroe of Blood on the Dance Floor Tells His Story

Out here on the Vans Warped Tour we have come across many members of bands that have been bullied in the past for various reasons. We are grateful to all of those that have shared their stories with us. Please take a look and listen to Jayy from Blood on the Dance Floor. Situations such as these need to come to an end. It is up to all of us to make that happen. Thank you to Jayy for sharing with us.

Jayy Von Monroe of Blood on the Dance Floor - 2011 Vans Warped Tour

Jayy Von Monroe of Blood on the Dance Floor - 2011 Vans Warped Tour


  1. OMG that’s so sad…. It makes me wanna just hug him to know that he’s accepted and loved. :( If I were at his middle school while he was there I definitely would have been his friend. I love people who look, act, and are just plain different. I love you Jayy!
    Bakersfield, CA.

  2. wow that made me cry because i live in a small town and im bashed everyday by people who hate me. even my ‘friends’ make fun of me. i get in trouble for listening to botdf…and really i try to pretend like i dont care what people think of me but still it hurts because they dont kno who i am but yet they think they do…

    1. This also made me cry because as like you I get made fun of because I listen to botdf and people think it is funny to make fun of me but really it hurts people BOTDF has saved my life so many times and I thank you guys for that

  3. i bet those bithches tht bullied jayy r regretting it.i get bullied.n pick on i pretend it dnt hurt but it dose. n thts wht i think they dnt understand. my socalled friends n classmates thnk its cool to spread rumors about the weaker man/ women. it suxs

  4. Awwwwh Jayy we love you dont worry bout the past :) i bet them people look at you now jealous cause your so amazing, we all accept us and if we all like how we are we shouldnt let other people ruin us cause we are more perfect then theyll ever be <3 Believe in me <3 I love you Jayy :3

  5. omg this is so sad :( Im bullied for like all that sht he’s bullied for and theres no point i aint changing…. i honestly know whos my fckin role model and idgaf who likes it or not. Jayy i love you <3 😀

  6. I feel your jayy I was bullied by a bunch of females who thought they were better than me and just beacuse I was emo/scene they went to the Princpal and told her I was cutting myself when I wasn’t I’m now going to be homeschool viturally cuz I leave many schools cuz both teachers and kids bully me and I’m sick of it I want to scream no and to tell them to leave me alone but it feels great to have great artists on our side for a chance I’m sick of people bashing on botdf cuz they are scene I’m sick of them say they are gross and stuff when lil Wayne Rihanna and Miley Cryrus are singing The same thing! (but botdf sings it better) hehehe

  7. I have to say jayy and dahive your my role models:D

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  11. I know how that feels jayy. people bully me for all of that.Just think that they know are soo upset that they never treated you right and they cant take it back

  12. hey hey do not forget me!!!!! oh what up!!……i love them and there songs…. my band is somewhat like them!!!!!!!!!!!!……….people that make fun of me…..well…. i blackout then i wake up with the kid or big guy is crying…..hahahahahahahahahaa …..sorry !!!!………….The guys say i rock in bed … the ones that are not scared of me!!!!!! dicks…… 😡 ……..fun

    1. ok lets do it girl

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  14. Jayy thanks so much for sharing your past with us.last year i changed my look on the outside to show who i was on the inside and i got hell for it and i had teachers telling the Principle i was cutting myself in class and scaring a whole bunch of kids (with my hair clothes oh and the piercing in the webbing between my thumb and first finger) so that by the end of the year i had to have the security follow me around the school because i had so many people who hated me and wanted to hurt me just because of who i was and i still get shit for it now bullying is a horrible thing and it happens to anyone is is not like everyone else like if your gay, bi, a lesbian, if you wear different clothes, wear your hair differently or even wear makeup like people like jayy and a WHOLE BUNCH of people do. and i can go on and on, on why peope get bulled poing is its bad and needs to end

    1. sorry point is……………

  15. oh glob this sounds just like me… i get bullied cause im so called emo and bi and “oreo” its everyday and i wnt 2 2 mental hospitals… i have to sayy ur not the only 1 jayy

  16. i get bullied all the time at high school i get picked on and been beaten up because im different than others when i listen to music at school e.g botdf and bvb i get judged Abou it and if one person finds out about it they always go and bullshit and people laugh at me ita seriously fucked up and i have just about had enough of it i have asked my mum if i could move school but the answers always no i hate everyone at that school i get called a fucking slag and a wrist slitter and all that but when i get angry because i have a.m i end up doing something or calling them bk and i get in trouble but when i go to a teacher they never believe a word i say and just push me away or they dont do anything

  17. i hate when people bully! if i was in his middle school i would stick up for him! i have done it before i can do it again! i ofcourse get bullied to. but wow… i was always the underdog… they used me and made fun because of my horrible childhood. even though i moved at my new school its worse. my ex friend spread rumors about me being homo! that was before we got in to a fight! i hated her!but i had to admit. it was hard. i even thought about suicide.but i decided to keep on trying.

    and everyone who’s being bullied and is reading this dont give up!

  18. I get bullied all the time because of the way I dress and the type of music that I listen to,i’ve been bullied from fifth grade all through middle school and now in highschool,I act like it doesn’t bother me but it does.

  19. Jayy is my role modle and I cried the other day because I want to meet him! People bully me because I dress alot like Jayy. I mean I think its sexy. And yes imma gurl. People make fun of me because I capitalize half of my name! IDC WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAY!! JAYY IS BETTER THAN EVERY ONE!! THOSE BASTARDS ARE JUST JEALOUS! JAYY PLZ COME TOO RICHMOND VA!!! I LOVE YA!!(Imma scene.) JAYY!!!!!!!!

    1. me to!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  20. Awwww thats so sad Jayy but we all know ur cool now but i still get bullied cuz im a transgender n a Gothic Witch but they want STOP me!I LOVE YA <3 XD

  21. jayy is gay and i think he is marred to davie but they split. btw idk if he is bi or gay i still t he is a sexy hawty :) ;*)

    1. me to i would want to meet him face to face

    2. no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      he did not marry him he has a wife!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!idiot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    1. dude don’t judge if u want to fuckin judge your considered one of the millions of bullies in the world judgeing isn’t right because behind every successful person there’s a pack of haters and i think they did a very good job on this blog

  25. Jayy i love u so much!<3 and i know how it feels to be bullied i've been bullied since i was in 3rd grade but i've always believed that behind every successful person there is a pack of haters. i've always wondered is this my fate????? loves u Jayy<3

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  29. Jayy, you’re not alone. I was bullied through two of my middle school years, because of my interest in music, as well as several other aspects. I have learned through self training that what people say doesn’t make who you are. You make yourself. As long as you’re you, that’s all that matters.

  30. watching this literally made me cry. thats so f*cked up! how could you do that to someone…. thats terrible. i get bullied just because of the things that i wear or what i like and things like that. but i have never had it that bad. i love jayy so much just has much as i love dahvie! and i am always here to support them! i am a botdf fan all the way. :)

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  33. If youre getting bullied, dont just take it, you need to stand up for yourself, Im not telling you to go out a deck the first guy who looks at you funny, Im saying face your problems. You might be afraid but you need to push that out of your head, look them in the eyes, be dead serious and tell them to stop and own that, dont revert back to the person with no confidence. I dont know your situation and there is a possibility that you could get hit but in the end, even your bullies will end up respecting you for having confidence, when you walk into a room, thats your room, you own it so act like it…. I used to get bullied a lot and all the bands and teachers and police couldnt stop it but one day I decided enough was enough and as soon as i did, no one ever bothered me again, I joined the football team, i made a lot of friends, I became the guy I wanted to be because I believed in myself and all the shit I took as a kid has made me a better person, I stand up for the weaker man because I was him and Im a friend to everyone…. This is the only way bullying will end, stand up for yourself and then stand up for others who cant do it themselves. I met this kid senior year, he was getting bullied for being gay and I was a defensive/offensive lineman and I was decently popular, I stepped in and told the punks to take a step back and apologize, no one ever bothered him again and we became friends, hes a cool dude….

  34. Is not fucking cool to bully people and that’s true. I feel sick that that even happened to you. YOLO do what you want, dress how you want, listen to way you want ect… I don’t understand why people always have to judge others. I love you jayy and I really think you are perfect; your like a role model to me. People only say thinks because they ain’t as full as you. So let the haters hate be strong and lie your life. I love you jayy :3

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  42. I get picked on because of the music I listen to so I know where he’s coming from and it’s ridiculous that people picked on him to the point where he had police escort him around the people who picked on him should be ashamed of themselves

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  46. You shouldn’t listen what people say all they do is try to act cool and try to impress people and all they are is jealous because you have stuff they don’t have you get a lot of attention from a whole lot of people and they support you for you and will be there whenever you need something and help you, so don’t let people bring you down because if you do they will win and will take power over you and will make you insecure about yourself.

  47. I read a lot about bullies and such and i see a lot of people dont really know how to get rid of them… Honestly, there isnt really a way to get rid of them, we need to just learn how to deal with them. I too was (still am) bullied. I still get super upset when i get called names and all that ‘great’ stuff, but how i learned to deal with it, was to just smile back at them. It seems weird, but its working. Bullies mostly look for your reaction and how you react to what they’re doing to you. This may not apply to all bullies, but this is just what i’ve observed and learned from my own experiences.
    If there is maybe one specific person that is bullying you, find their weak spot. If you can find something or someone that is important to them, use it against them. EX: if Greg (example bully) is bullying you, and Greg happens to have a smoking hot girlfriend that he absolutely is in love with. Wait for an opportunity to say something that will let him know what it is feeling like to be torn apart like you are. Use his girlfriend that he is madly in love with as an example. What if someone was bullying her? What would you do?
    I dunno if this helps at all… but this is just something ive kinda learned…

    “Fuck everyone who hates you. A smile is the best revenge.” -Gerard Way

  48. I don’t see why so many people hate Jayy and Dahvie.
    This was very inspiring, and it really shows how they really, as far as their personalities.
    This was just perfect.
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  50. Jay i know how you feel… i am a girl who is into girls and i get bullied by people all the time for it… i mean i habe teachers bashing on me for it… but i pushthrough everyday with a smile on my face only to come home and cry my eyes out… so i wouldve probably been sitting in thay classroom with you bud

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